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Creative Ways to Announce Your Pregnancy

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A few years ago, I wrote this article below for our main Shopping for Two site on creative ways to announce your pregnancy to your husband. This article and the others I wrote have been hugely popular, so I thought I would share it with you here. I also have more fun ways to tell your husband that you are expecting, or ideas telling co-workers about your pregnancy or for telling your family and friends too. I hope these ideas give you inspiration:

Mama’s got a Brand New Shirt. Order one of our cute t-shirts to wear when you see your husband. Let him notice your new pregnancy glow while you sport an ‘Expecting‘, ‘Pregnant‘, or ‘Bun in the Oven‘ shirt. Those of us who grew up watching the movie Grease will recognize our ‘I Feel Like a Defective Typewriter‘ t-shirt immediately! If you already have children, you can dress them in an ‘I’m Going to be a Big Brother’ t-shirt or an ‘I’m Going to be a Big Sister’ t-shirt.

Dinner and a Present. If food is the way to your man’s heart, then this is the way to go. Wrap up your positive pregnancy test like a little present and present it to him over his favorite meal. If your husband is an outgoing type, take him to his favorite restaurant and have the maitre’d bring the gift to the table after you’ve finished dinner. Your husband can share his jubilation with the patrons and staff, who inevitably will be thrilled for you. Chances are they might even include dessert on the house, you’re eating for two now, so indulge! If you think your husband would prefer a more intimate setting, cook his favorite dinner and set the table with the good china you never have the occasion to use.

Bun in the Oven. Sneak out of bed early one morning and put a batch of cinnamon buns in the oven to bake. Don’t worry about baking these from scratch, the pre-prepared refrigerated ones from your grocery store will do just fine. When your husband wakes up and smells the irresistible aroma announce to him that, “Honey, we’ve got a bun in the oven!”

A Momento. Announce your pregnancy to your husband with a souvenier that he can keep on his desk or dresser. Take a picture of your positive pregnancy test and frame it with the words, “Positive proof that in nine months you will be the best dad around, just wait, you’ll see.”

Start Saving. Is your husband in charge of the family finances? Buy him a piggy bank and put a note around it’s neck that says, “Our Baby’s College Fund — Only 18 years and 9 months to save.” Or even better get him this adorable silver Noah’s Ark Bank that you can inscribe with, “Baby’s College Fund.” Put this on his dresser and wait for him to find it. Don’t be surprised if he comes running to you with a big hug….and a new household budget.

Sweet Tooth. Does your husband have a sweet tooth? Cater to his craving with your special message. Pick up your husband’s favorite Chinese take out and swap out the fortune cookie message with your own message that says, “You will be a dad on xx/xx/xxxx (your due date).” Or have a fun afternoon at the paint-your-own-pottery store and make him an ice cream bowl that says, “You’re going to be a dad!” Fill it up with his favorite ice cream and watch his reaction when he gets to the bottom.

Multi-media Momma. Are you computer saavy? These days making movies and pictures slideshows on your computer is so user friendly, you can even burn your creation on a DVD. Edit together some of your favorite photos and home movies together with the final message announcing your pregnancy and burn it to a DVD. Pop a bowl of popcorn for your husband to eat as he watches his new favorite flick.

No matter how you say it, either with humor, romance, or drama, telling your husband that he’s going to be a dad will no doubt be a memorable event in your life. Good luck and congratulations!

Did you tell your husband, family or friends in a memorable way? I’d love to hear it.

Remember Lullabies

When I was pregnant with my first son, I remember having a completely panicked moment that I had forgotten the words to almost every single lullaby. In my momentarily irrational moment, I truly thought I was going to be the worst mother on the planet because I wouldn’t know how to lovingly sing her baby to sleep at night. I did a quick online search and read up on all the classic lullabies and by the time my little boy was born I had a good number of them memorized.

Now it seems like somedays I can’t get these simple songs and melodies out of my head! But if you need a refresher or a full crash course, I’ve created a page with the bulk of the classic lullabies listed here. And just as a sample, here are all the versus to Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star (did you know that there was more than one verse?).

Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star

Twinkly, twinkle, little star
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high
Like a diamond in the sky
Twinkle, twinkle, little star
How I wonder what you are!

When the blazing sun is gone,
When he nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle, all the night.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

Then the traveler in the dark
Thanks you for your tiny spark;
He could not see which way to go,
If you did not twinkle so.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

There’s a Baby in Your Belly

When you are first feeling those tiny little baby movements in your belly you would never guess that those fish like movements could turn into this. But they do. Incredible! It looks like a foot to me, what do you think?

Elle MacPherson La Mere Nursing Bra 50% Off


I’ve been a big fan of La Mere maternity bra since I first tried it over two years ago and it seems like the Shopping for Two readers have been fond of it too. I wore mine for about 16 months straight and really loved it. It was supportive and yet very elegant and I might even say, a bit sexy too with all that black lace. Oprah has raved about this bra in her baby shows too. The only thing that held me back from buying more than one was the price. It was always right around $60 which was the high end of my bra budget. But guess what? figleaves.com is having a sale of up to 70% off everything storewide! So the La Mere maternity bra is down to $31! At that price, pick up at least three. If I were pregnant or still nursing I certainly would. You can read my full La Mere bra review here.

Update: Unfortunately Figleaves doesn’t carry this bra any longer, but you can find the Elle Macpherson Intimates La Mere maternity bra at Amazon. Even though it is no longer at its sale price, I’d still recommend this bra. It was wonderful!

Frugal Friday : Free Baby Stuff

While the rest of the country goes shopping today. I recommend that you do the opposite and save money by taking advantage of free stuff! One way to save money on a baby is to sign up with different companies that offer free coupons, trials, samples, etc. In addition to Shopping for Two’s Free Baby Stuff page, here are two sites I recommend signing up with:

Babies Online

This is a really nice site that not only will send you free offers as they come up but will also send you info about your growing baby with personalized weekly calendars, calculators, articles & information. ALL 100% FREE! Can’t beat that.

Sign up here: Free Stuff For New & Expectant Parents!

Baby to Bee

Baby to Bee is another great website that collects all sorts of free baby related offers and sends them to you via e-mail.

Sign up here: FREE stuff for any Mother or Father-to-be!

Morning Sickness Remedies

Morning sickness is one of the most common pregnancy syptoms and oh, it can be an awful thing to put up with. I suffered through it with both of my pregnancies and it was tough! I tried all sorts of tricks, but the only thing that really helped was ginger tea (slices of ginger boiled in water) that my husband would make me first thing in the morning. Even that only slightly helped. The thing that helped the most was time. Eventually I started to feel better.

Today I decided to round up some of the best articles I could find about easing morning sickness ailments. I hope you find something that helps you.

What morning sickness remedies helped you out during your pregnancy?

Oh, that smells awful! I must be pregnant!

This weekend I was reading a post by one of my favorite bloggers, Sew Liberated, who’s pregnant with her first. She wrote a really funny post about a conversation she had with her husband about why she smelled burnt popcorn as they were going to bed. You can read for yourself what turned out to be the burnt popcorn smell.

Many woman experience a heightened sense of smell during their pregnancy. I know I sure did and it didn’t help with the morning sickness experience at all! Scientists are still trying to figure out exactly what the reasoning behind it is, however having a stronger sniffer is attributed to estrogen increases. In fact this heightened sense of smell is thought to cause morning sickness. If you go even farther, some think that this attach on the nose helps the mother to avoid eating toxic things that could harm the baby.

Other strange sense things that can happen when you are pregnant is with taste. While I used to be a habitual Altoid popper, I never could finish one, or even leave one in my mouth for very long, during my pregnancies. Don’t even mention what regular peppermint toothpaste did to me! And then there’s that metallic taste that just won’t go away.

Many pregnant woman talk about having altered vision, hearing and touch also while pregnant. Amazing, isn’t it, how our bodies can change while growing a baby. What did you experience? What sensitivities did you have?

Jump Start Your Labor Cookies

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There’s been a lot of talking on the forums about the cookies that jump started my labor and I’m thrilled to see that it’s helped other woman too! Lord knows that when you are ready for the baby to come out, you’ll do just about anything. Luckily these cookies are really tasty. It’s a super spicy gingersnap recipe that you can find here. If you cut the amount of cayenne in half and roll them dough balls in turbinado sugar before baking, they are perfect holiday cookies too.

Here’s my story on how they worked:
These cookies, really can jump start your labor if spice is your trigger for labor to begin! My husband has always loved ginger cookies, so a week before my due date I decided to make these cookies for him as a thank you for putting up with my very pregnant, hormonal self. I made this in the morning and ate more than my fair share of both raw dough (yes, I know, shame on me) and baked cookies. I took a nap and when he came home from work, I went to the kitchen and grabbed the plate of cookies to present to him. Literally as I was walking toward him with the plate of cookies in my hand my water broke and we were off for the hospital. Since then I have passed this recipe onto a few friends and amazingly enough, it’s started their labors too! Give these spicy ginger cookies a try and pack your bags.